Peer pressure works for me.

I am making my lists, checking them twice. And I'm realizing that I have forgotten some of the basics of baby-raising. Not the feeding and the diapering and the exhaustion part. Heaven knows a mommy never forgets that stuff.

I am talking about products. Baby products. Mommy must-haves. The essentials necessary to make life easier. It seems like they are always thinking up new ideas.

I would love to hear from you some of your all-time favorite baby or mommy products.

What is it that you can't/couldn't live without during the infant stage? Anything goes, from nursing b*a's to changing pads.

Really. Do tell....

Oh, by the way. 22 Days to go!!!

According to the way-too-close-and-slightly-creepy guy at the local Wal-Marts, "I am fixin to have this thing. Ain't I?"

Hello. My name is Janelle and I have feelings.

Things I have heard today by complete strangers. In no particular order.

How much longer?

It looks like you could POP any minute? Apparently, this person thinks like my 4 year old daughter.

How old are the other 2?

You sure have your hands full.

Whoa. Let me get OUT of your way.

Tsk. Tsk. Poor thing.

What name do you have picked out? Oh. That is different.

Do you feel alright?

Not much longer, honey.

You could go at any time.

At least it's not really hot.

Girl, are you ever going to have that baby?

Ahh, poor thing.

PEOPLE, please!!! Just because I am pregnant doesn't give you the right to say the first thing that comes to your mind! I still have feelings behind this bump. I will only allow my real friends to be that honest!

BE NICE TO ME!!

Keep your bad manners to yourself, please.

I am sick. As in, can't breathe and my head is stuck under an eighteen-wheeler kind of sick. I am also REALLY pregnant, as in 36 days to go kind of pregnant. So with that in mind, I muster up some amazing faux-strength and head out to the grocery store.

My swollen feet carry me from aisle to aisle as I put who-knows-what into my cart. Finally, it's time to check out. The clerk was very kind to me as he emptied my cart and made small talk.

But the bagger lady. Hmmmmm. She could have used the good-ole "if you can't say anything nice" lecture from her mama!

Bagger: You are really pregnant.

Me: Yes. I know.

Bagger: (looking disapprovingly from my face to my stomach to my feet) How much longer?

Me: 5 weeks.

Bagger: Well, you look awful. Good luck!

Me:(this is what I said in my head) Oh, yeah! Do you want a piece of me, old bagger lady?

Me:(what I really said) Thank you.

All About My MOM...by Z-man

My mom's name is Janelle.

She is 35 years old.

My mom is 5 feet 90 inches tall, and she weighs 266 pounds. (I'd say that's pretty skinny considering my height!!)

Her hair is brown and her eyes are green.

Her favorite color is green and her favorite food is CAKE!!! (yes, sir!)

My mom likes to watch Amarincin Idol.

I love my mom very much because she is fun.

My mom is prettiest when she smiyise. (smiles!)

If I could buy my mom anything, I would buy her a flowr.

My favorite thing to do with my mom is play games.

My mom always says, NO!!!!!!! (He sure did use a lot of !!!!!!)

The thing I like best about my mom is she leds me wach TV. (Unless I tell him NO!!!!!!!!!)

The funniest thing my mom ever did was let my dog set on the char! (Hmmm. I guess I thought I was funnier than that.)

M...makes food
O..only mom I have
T...thoughtful
H...helpful
E....excited
R...reads to my sister and me

Happy Mother's Day!!! I hope you were surrounded by love today. My only wish is that my mom could have been in town so we could honor her. I love you, MOM. You are the best!! Thanks for loving me and teaching me how to do the hardest job on earth!

Yesterday

Yesterday, my baby boy looked like this.

Today, he looks like this.

Yesterday, I held him in my arms all day long. Today, I have to chase him down for a hug.

Yesterday, every experience he had was my doing. Today, he discovers new things on his own.

Yesterday, I couldn't imagine 7 minutes without him. Today, he spends 7 hours away from me.

Yesterday, our days were simple and uncluttered. Today, our days our busy, crazy and chaotic.

Yesterday, I read books to him. Today, he reads to me.

Yesterday, he wore size 1 in shoes. Today, he wears size 1 in shoes...12 inches separating them.

Yesterday, we celebrated every new tooth. Today, we celebrate him losing those same teeth.

Yesterday, he wore the clothes I picked for him. Today, it's all about sports shorts and T-shirts.

Yesterday, I bathed him every night with lavender soap. Today, he showers alone.

Yesterday, we played with balls for hours and hours. Today, I sit on the sidelines and cheer for him.

Yesterday, my heart flip-flopped at every grin. Today, we tell silly jokes and laugh together.

Yesterday, I lovingly washed and hung his baby clothes. Today, I am going through those same clothes getting ready for another boy.

Yesterday, I cried when I realized how fast he was growing. Today, I cried because I don't know where the last seven years have gone.

Yesterday, I thanked God for the privilege of raising him. Today, I thanked God for the privilege of raising him.

I know that every yesterday has shaped who he is today. It is still so hard to see time pass so quickly.

REALITY PARENTING

Admit it, girls. We all entered this motherhood thing smarter than EVERY OTHER MOTHER on the planet. We all had our mental lists of things we would NEVER do. We were determined to prove that we were the perfect ones with children who would NEVER do what the neighbor's children did.

For example, I was NEVER going to let my boy play with guns. Yeah, that lasted until Z was 2. He chewed his POP-TART in the shape of a gun and started to shoot anything and everything. Our home has never been the same.

Also, I was NEVER going to be the mom in the Wal-Marts with the loud obnoxious kids. Heaven forbid. That misconception didn't last very long into my mothering career. I have become the women at the local Wal-Marts that I brutally judged in my prekid days. The funny thing is, I see the same look on the premothers that I had on my face 7+ years ago. Except now they are looking at ME. I laugh at how much they have to learn about parenting.

I was NEVER going to allow my children to leave the table without trying all the perfectly planned and cooked food that I worked hard to prepare for them. I was also going to cook EVERY night. Yeah, right. I think we all know how that one turns out.

My children were NEVER going to drink soda, pick their noses, eat too much candy, have cavities, watch too much TV, sleep in my bed, whine, wear dirty clothes. Basically have imperfections of any kind.

I was a dreamer.

Time and time again, reality hits. And it hits hard. It hit me yesterday when I let Lou order a Diet Coke with her McNugget Happy Meal. A DIET COKE, people. She's 4 and NOT. ON. A. DIET.

Then today, I sent Z to school with a lunch box that I lovingly packed. The contents of the lovingly packed lunch box: Cinnamon and Brown Sugar POP-TART, Doritos and Oreos.

Pop Tarts. Doritos. Oreos.

**GASP**

The only thing I prayed for today was that he wouldn't eat his POP TART in the shape of a gun and start shooting. That would have been an awkward conversation with the principal. And I hope to NEVER have awkward conversations with the principal.

Time will tell...

I would love to hear your own "I NEVER" moments. Don't worry. There is no judgement here. This is a safe place to share!