Raise your hand if you think Z-man and Loulabelle are the real names of my kiddos? These are fun names, but they are not the real ones.
Shocking. I know.
They happen to have, in my opinion, great names. But for the sake of the blog I keep them to myself.
Z-man was named after Skip's (not his real name either!!!) grandpa. It is a generational name that Z, Skip, his dad and his grandpa all share. This name is over 100 years old. When Skip and I were dating, he told me that his first boy would share the same name. It is a name of great importance to his entire family. It has been an honor to fulfill their desire. These are great men for Z to pattern his life after.
Loulabelle's name was more random. I fell in love with her name sometime in high school or college, not sure now. It was someone's last name, which is my favorite kind of name. Her middle name is mine, my dad's, and my great-grandfather's. We could not have picked a better name for her. She is fun and quirky and curly, just like her name. It fits.
The baby's name is very special to me. His first name is the ending of my maiden name. His middle name is my dad and brother's first name. My dad passed away when I was 20, after years of battling cancer. I was his little girl. I hope this name will honor him and his wonderful memory. He was the type of man that everyone adored. He was kind, and gentle, and hard working. The same traits that I pray over this baby. I think I will call him "Wing Man" on the blog.
One of the main reasons that I don't share the names here is to keep public opinion away. Since they are on the unusual side, we have received our fair share of negative comments.
When Loulabelle was just 1 month old a lady sent me into serious name regret. She walked up to me at the mall and gooed all over Lou. She told me how cute she was, yada yada. Then she asked me her name. Gushing with pride, I said the sweet word. The lady looked right at me and told me how weird that was, then walked away. I lived with Name Regret Syndrome for an entire month afterwards.
I have already had comments regarding this baby's name. Some love it, some hate it. It even took my family some time to adjust...and it's a family name!
The important thing is that we adore it. It is unique and meaningful. No one else has this name. It is actually a noun, but I am OK with that. We will say it with honor for the man he is named after was a good man.
(Whew. This is turning into a very long story.)
While Z-man was away at camp, we finished the baby's room. One of the first things he did was run in for a peek. He spent a few minutes looking around. When he came out, he was very quiet. Almost upset. Being sentimental, I thought he was just sad that his old room had changed and was no longer his. I asked him what was wrong.
"Do you not like the room?"
"No. I like the room. But why did you change the baby's name to WMM (pronounced whim)?"
"That's good. Cuz WMM (whim) is not a cool name!"
Everyone's a critic!
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19 comments:
Okay, I am laughing at myself now, because I really did think your daughter's name was Loulabelle! I thought Z-man was a catchy nickname for a name like Zachary. And seriously, you even made up Skip?!?!
Now I am REALLY curious about what their real names are. I understand why you don't share them here. We kept our baby names a secret until Adeline was born for the same reason. I thought people would have more tact than to share negative opinions after the baby was actually born, but apparently not! still....I would love to know....
You know, people lack TACT these days. There are some things that you just should not say to people...including opinions on their kids' names. If you love the name, then go for it and have no regret!
I LOVE your sweet kiddos names!!! The boys each carry special family ties forever with their names and Lou's so fits her. It will always be one of my all time favorites.
Eight more days!!!!! How are doing?
Tears once again. I wish I had met your dad. You mom and Stacey are such wonderful people that I am sure I would love your dad just the same.
You know my feelings on names. We share similar struggles. I think your babies names are classy, timeless and just unique enough to make them so special. I love them and cannot wait to get my hands on that little one. He is so loved.
Comments to my kids names...What kind of middle name is that? Does not make any sense to me. Why didn't you just name him the full name? Why use just a nickname?
And some people call him by that full name, even though it's not his name at all.
Weirdos.
I love your kids names. I can't wait to hear (through the grapevine)what the baby's name is. I am sure I will love it, too.
I love last name babies.
Forget what other people say, a mother always knows if a name is right from the moment they first hold their baby.
I was Erin Elizabeth until i was born and my mom held me and said "Uh this is not erin elizabeth, this is JP's MOM"
If she had not changed the name I really don't think my husband and i would be married. i mean aaron and erin is just too weird!
his room is ADORABLE janelle!!!!
That story about Z-man just cracks me up! I love all your kids names and all your kids! Even Wing Man and I've haven't even met him yet!
The other day I checked in a family with Lou's name as their last name. I wondered if maybe somehow, they were related to the person you met that caused you to like Lou's name.
I love wing man's name! I think it is very strong and and masculine. A kiddo with that name can do anything when he grows up. Love it!!
I love Lou and Z's names too. I had total name envy with Z (well, with his middle name), I LOVE LOVE it. I think Gus was even a little jealous.
Anyway, I think that the three will flow well together.
Ok, so I don't know what your kid's names are but I lOVE different names and you know what...it's not about anyone else but you guys & the specialness (is that a word?) that it means to you guys. Argg! Makes me frustrated that people just can appreciate it for what it means to you....Ok, I'm done now.
Blessings to you & your little family! I can't wait to see the new one!
Yes... totally intrigued about the names now, but will forgive you for not sharing. :)
Some people have NO tact at all. Sad, really.
The nursery (what I can see of it) looks great! LOL@Z's reaction :)
heather
Z's comments on Lil' Poppy (or Wing Man's) name is TOO CUTE!! I get looks when I tell people Ruthie's name. They ALWAYS mistake it for something else... Ruby (which is pretty) and others like Roofie! PLEASE I would NEVER name my child that!! :) Anyway, I like Ruthie Grace and I'm sure I would LOVE the names you have chosen. But, ultimately, my opinion doesn't matter, as long as you like it... it's perfect!! Enjoy your LAST WEEK!!!! WOW!
I have to be honest, when my neice named her baby "Bo". I was THINKING..."Now that is different. Never have I heard of the name and where in the world did she come up with that?" But no matter. I have excepted it, even in the momment I thought all of that. Her stepson's name is Ty. So we tease her about Bo-Ty and Ty-Bo. (Bowtie and Teabow.) Someone even bought her bowtie pasta as a joke for her baby shower. She (along with the rest of us) got a good laugh out of that. I do like different names though. I'm trying to talk my husband in to letting us use my maiden name as our son's first or middle name. He's not crazy about it, so maybe I will let him read your post. :o)
"i" before "e", except after c. I misspelled NIECE. :o)
Oh goodness that is FUNNY about Z! I'm glad he liked the room though!
And you know I love your kids names! All three of them!
You have awesome taste!
I love to hear how folks come up with their children's names. Of course, now I'm DYING to know these unusual names!!!
My nephew, 13 at the time, told me that we were naming Woggie a "redneck" name. My nephew's name is Bubba. So, you're right. Everyone's a critic! :-)
I love that your kids' have unique names that have meaning! It makes them stand out! Wing man's room is adorable! Can't wait to meet him! Seems like yesterday we were sitting at Kindermusik trying to think of ways to help with nausea.
Okay, now I am DYING with curiosity about your kids' names! Especially Loulabelle.
I have had the same favorite girl name since I was 18. Talbot. I just love, love, love it. But now that we're expecting again, I'm thinking maybe it's too unusual and people will react badly and maybe I should just name her something safe and pretty that she'll like, such as Elisabeth or Caroline. We can't decide.
The funny thing is that no one really likes the name at first, but now that we're tossing around other names all our friends and family are saying, "What about TALBOT?!" They all got used to the idea from when we were pregnant with Nicknack and apparently they have all become quite attached to it.
I also had serious baby name regret and remember lying awake, crying, and actually PRAYING for God to please reverse time so I could go back and name Nicknack Brinkley, instead. He was about three days old and I was just an emotional wreck. We seriously considered changing it but now we're glad we stuck with Nicholas Lane. Not unusual, but he's such a Nicholas!
But I do still love the name Brinkley.
Sorry so long.
Hope you're feeling GREAT!!
I meant to say the other day that I LOVE the blog name Wing Man!
Much much better than Wonder Baby!
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